Post 33: One mans trash, another mans treasure

One mans trash is another mans treasure. I'm sure we've all heard this saying before. If not, it means something that one person sees as rubbish may be something that someone else sees as treasure.

Isn't it weird how something you love about someone else, an amazing feature they have, may be something that person dislikes?

Someone's #1 choice of university may be someone's clearing or last resort option.

We all like and dislike different things, that is why it is important to embrace all aspects of ourself.

Smile, it may brighten up someone else's day. It's free too.

Compliment, it may also brighten up someone else's day.

A feature you could wish you didn't have, could be the feature that your partner fell in love with you for. 

So just embrace it all, what have you got to lose? Honestly?

Everyone has different taste, we see ourselves so often that we get used to how we look and point out things that are probably not even noticeable to the person sitting next to you. 

They don't care, why should you.

Be you. Be you. 'BeYouTiful'.

All photos were captured by @Sheyreece

http://www.sheynareece.com/

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Post 32: #NandosNetworking

Very overdue post which was written in January after the dinner, but was not posted.

I decided to organise a #NandosNetworking dinner during the Christmas holidays, to meet new like-minded creatives whilst empowering eachother over a cheeky Nandos.
I love networking and meeting new people, I think it's such an important thing to do as you never know who you'll meet or inspire/motivate.

I simply posted information about the event on Twitter and Instagram, and received such an amazing turn out and great feedback from it. I met such lovely, ambitious, hard-working people that night. The night was filled of laughter, empowerment and motivation. We discussed what we do and how we started doing it and I spoke about the Hair Society I started up at University last year.

After we had finished eating, the talking and laughter continued as the conversation started to deepen. We spoke on black power and how black people need to unite & come together more to make a bigger impact. Black people have so much power however society can make our young people think otherwise, causing them to drift off and live lifestyles that they are not destined to live. It's such a shame, but it's down to us to make the changes we want to see. It isn't going to happen by itself, we're improving and creating and I love that.

We left Nandos around 10pm, I had such a good time and I know the others did too. I've already been asked when the next one will be haha, I'd love to organise another one but being at university outside of London makes it a little more difficult. When I do decide to organise it, it'll definitely be bigger and better!

Post 02: Get'cho edges gurlll

Hey everyone,

I'm here to talk about edgessss, my "edge laying essentials", how to maintain your edges and my recommended Do's/Donts

What is "laying your edges"?

Laying your edges is when you have your baby hair lay flat, very nicely and sleekly along your forehead. Not a very good description but hey lol.

I love laying my edges and putting my hair into a sleek low bun style, I do it quite often. My edge laying essentials and item "must have's" for anyone laying their hair are: A brush/toothbrush Gel (Eco styler is all I use) Ever since discovering it 2 years ago in New York, I have never looked back!
- I will note alternatives below & satin/silk wrap



 



How do I lay them?

I apply a little eco-styler to my baby hairs and use my brush to keep it down. You can use your brush (or toothbrush for more accuracy) in a swirling motion to create little waves. Wrap your hair with a satin/silk wrap for as long as you need. I tend to wrap mine for approx. 10 mins if I'm in a rush or whilst I'm getting ready. That is how you get the ultimate layyy.

Edge maintenance
Your edges are a very delicate, fragile part of your hair. It is important not to put too much stress or pressure on them, as they can be easily lost. Keep your edges, alongside the rest of your hair, well moisturised and wrapped at night to seal the moisture in. They can break off by constant pulling and heavy hairstyles, if you are suffering from breakage due to this then you must stop doing this immediately and take more care. You can grow back your edges by using castor oil regularly and you can make your own judgement based on how quickly your hair gets dry. I would recommend twice a day, every few days. It is important to be mindful of your edges because if you continue to damage them, the follicles can become destroyed, stopping growth from taking place which is something you do not want to happen. Relaxer also can thin and destroy your hairline so take care.

Do's
Wrap your hair Keep hair moisturised (especially if you're wearing a protective style - braids, weave, wig)
Wear a silk/satin scarf to bed
Take care when combing or finger-detangling hair

DON'T Brush your hairline harshly Do tight/really heavy braids or cornrows (when doing weave)

Pull your hair back into a bun too often Relax your hair too often as relaxers thin it

If your edges are thinning, change the way you handle your hair and the styles you do as this has a big impact. Fix it while it still can be fixed, the last thing you want is to damage it until you can't even grow hair there!

Alternatives

I am aware that eco-styler may not work for all hair types however ALTERNATIVE products that you could give a try are:

ORS Olive Oil edge control

Dr Miracles edge control - I've tried this & prefer it instead of the Olive Oil one

Mizani edge control

Gorilla snot gel

I came across a youtube tutorial for laying down 4C natural hair, wetting your hair beforehand may help:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJcZeYI55vM

I also came across this blogpost, a review on Grow and Restore edge treatment:
http://www.nerdabouttown.com/2015/02/dont-let-your-edges-get-snatched.html

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Post 01: 2O16! GUESS WHO'S BACK!

Hey guys,

I hope you're all having a safe and happy new year so far.

I've been up to so much throughout the last few months, and haven't blogged about anything! But I'm back, and aiming to be consistent from now on despite all the other commitments I have.. I was busy completing assignments and very pleased to say that my grades for first term have been going good.

Time for a little catch up, I've been kindly gifted products to try out, with Root2Tip ever so kindly providing me with a range of their products.

My favourite from the range is their Honey Range Juice. This water-based product is perfect for detangling hair easily and works a charm. I like to use it when I've been a bit lazy with my hair and left it untouched for a few days lol it detangles my hair without hassle.

All their products I have tried have mild scents as they are only filled with natural ingredients, so if you like non-harsh, subtle smells then this range is perfect for you. The honey rain juice is also very good for kids and they can easily apply it themselves, one less thing for you parents to worry about!

I am currently trying out their "Harvest Hair Growth" pack which are two oils, used to stimulate the scalp and promote healthier hair growth within 90 days. I've only just had my hair done about 3 weeks ago now and need to use the oils regularly. I haven't been consistent with moisturising my hair this time whilst having in jumbo twists, if I'm honest, but hopefully my hair has grown a little regardless. What I like about these oils is that a little is needed as it covers a lot, so it will last a very long time and I feel happy knowing that the products contain strengthening ingredients,

This is the link to their website:- http://www.root2tip.co.uk/

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Post 32: Your inner pretty x

Channel your inner pretty.

In today's generation, it is so easy to feel down about your image or certain things you may like or not like.. Due to the way media portrays things.
As you are growing up, it is important to find yourself and try to spend time doing things that you enjoy doing. Until you learn to love and accept yourself for who you are, you will always allow and depend on the views of others to dictate your life.

Remember, there will always be things that we do that are not appreciated or accepted by others but as long as it makes you happy and you know that it makes you happy, do not stop. (Don't get me wrong, of course this depends on what it is that you are doing lol!)

Rock that hairstyle you've always wanted to try out. 

Wear that outfit that you've always wanted to flaunt but never had the confidence to. 

Wear that lipstick that really suits you but society or other people around you have made you think that it is not for you.

Just be. You.
Because, if you haven't got yourself.. How long are you planning to rely on everyone else for?

@SheyReece and I went to explore Oxford Circus last week (read previous post for more details and pictures). She captured some amazing shots of me and vice versa which can be found on her blog and instagram

createdbyshey.com
@sheyreece

All photos were captured by @Sheyreece, I would like to say thank you. They came out great! x

Post 31: Shooting with @SheyReece x

Hey guys,

I have been away from blogging for such a long time. I actually have many things to blog about, so I must start up once again.

My first returning blogpost is about a shoot the other day. I had a lovely, fun and over-due meet up with friend, photographer & blogger @Sheyreece.

I met the lovely Sheyna in youth camp at church back in 2011, and here we are in 2015. 'Shooting together. She is such an amazing photographer with a great big, natural afro. 

We both have a thing for natural hair, so we passed by the ORS Product Launch hair event at Boots, Regents Street before heading off to take some amazing shots of eachother. 

Shooting with Sheyna was a new experience for me, as since buying my Canon, I'm used to being the one capturing the moments rather than being in front of the camera. I grew to enjoy being the one taking the pictures, I think I prefer it that way but when we were shooting I just felt so free. The day was full of laughter, smiles and jokes, meaning time flew by extremely quickly. I wanted the day to be chilled and relaxed, which is evident with my outfit. Shey said we should dress according to our mood, and the way I dressed somewhat determined how my day turned out. After taking the shots, I went to spend the evening with some of my friends before we all go back to University.

 

I am happy with the shots she captured, she even happened to capture a few moments where I was off-guard lol! Read the blogpost after this to see the shots Sheyna took of me! 

 All pictures were taken by Fiona Williams and must not be claimed elsewhere. All credit must be given to Fiona Williams if used.

You guys must check out her new website and Instagram where you can find pictures from her adventures, previous photoshoots and two blogposts which she uploaded ('REALITY' and 'DREAMS')  with a few shots from the other day.

Createdbyshey.com

Instagram.com/sheyreece

I guarantee you will love her photography and her massive 'fro as much as I do. 

Thank you for such a fun day girlie, catch up soon when we get the time again! x

Post 29: Tee chops it off

My friend Tiffany, (who I've known since year 7) took a giant leap last month, and instead of transitioning from relaxed to natural.. she just turned up to my house one day with level 2 hair (guys, you already know how short that is).

To be honest, I was quite shocked but very happy for her at the same time as it wasn't something I expected however I was happy that she had bravely done the big chop and how she confidently rocks her natural hair.

I know you will all agree that she looks gorgeous with short hair, keep rocking it girl!

I know how I felt when I did the big chop (nauseous, panicked, anxious and so on and so on), and I was very interested to find out exactly how she felt with such a drastic change.

Tiff says:

At first, I felt like "what am I doing?".. Then I just decided to suck it up & let all my hair go.
As my hairdresser was cutting it I thought "My God, I'm crazy", considering people were paying for my type of hair. Once it was all done, I was confused and realised that the reason I had made that crazy decision was to teach young ladies that your hair does not define who you are ... 

A picture taken a couple months ago of my mother relaxing Tiff's hair.

I couldn't find any recent pics Tiff, I had no choice but to look through pics 3+ year old!

Brand new Tiff..

Follow her on Instagram: @ashia_t_officially

Tip of the Post:

You are beautiful the way You are, with or without any hair.